Back In The Closet Like A Porn Star
It’s almost ten years since I had a chapter published in Coming Out Like A Porn Star. Meanwhile, I’ve been back in the porn closet for six years. And it’s starting to chafe a bit. Read More …
The Age Verification Bullshit Continues
Why age verification of porn is a bad idea. I’m so tired. Read More …
For The Girls Turns 20
ForTheGirls.com is 20 years old in June. We launched on the 1st June. That’s 20 solid years of offering porn for women. Read More …
Bright Desire Turns 10
It’s Bright Desire’s 10th birthday. I launched BrightDesire.com on 1st December 2012 and here we are, ten years later, still going strong. Read More …
“What’s Your Honest Opinion On Pornography?”
A thread on Reddit Ask Women has a lot of negative comments about porn. I posted my own long essay but it was deleted. So I’m just putting it here since I went to all the effort of writing it. Read More …
Do Women Like “Violent” Porn?
According to recent research, some women are really into “violent porn”, even more than men. While most people weren’t into aggressive porn, a lot of women were Read More …
For The Girls Turns 19
1st of June marks the 19th birthday of ForTheGirls.com. 19 years since me and my friend launched our little site that, at best, we hoped would make a bit of spare cash and last a year or two. Instead, the site is still here, still being updated, still going strong. Read More …
I’m Running ForTheGirls.com Again
I’m back running For The Girls again. Porn for women has changed in 19 years and FTG is one of the oldest sites offering it. Read More …
Mondo Thingo: Chick Porn 2004
All about an old episode of Mondo Thingo which discusses chick porn: the rise of women’s erotica, with Candida Royalle, Cleo’s Paula Joy, Anna Brownfield and Kath Albury. Plus a bonus appearance by ForTheGirls.com Read More …
Spending A Year Dead For Tax Reasons
If you want to know what I’ve been up to for the last year, I’ll say I’ve been spending it dead for tax reasons. This reply is much funnier than the truth, which is that I have CFS. Read More …
Youtube Bans My Video For “Misleading Title”
I had a video on Youtube called “Porn Scene Goes Horribly Wrong”. It’s a joke video in which a couple kiss but can’t have sex because “I’m not feeling it because people don’t pay for porn anymore.” It’s an anti piracy statement. Youtube has banned it. Their email said: “Content that contains spam, scams, or other deceptive practices that seek to exploit the community are not allowed on YouTube. This Read More …
If Bright Desire Was An 80s Sitcom
I found myself wondering what BrightDesire.com would look like if it was an 80s sitcom. Here’s the end result, a fun video I made starring some of our performers. Read More …
Making and Curating Porn In The Time Of Corona
To help out our sex worker friends, I’ve offered to feature their previously existing films at Bright Desire. I’m going to add a new performer-produced film every week starting this Friday. Read More …
Where To Find Good Porn For Women In 2019/2020
I’ve compiled a list of good quality porn for women sites that are making good content in 2019 and into 2020. If you want feminist porn or ethical porn that women can enjoy, this is the list for you. Read More …
“Dear Jiz” At On Our Backs Exhibition New York
My film “Dear Jiz” is now an official art exhibit at the Leslie-Lohman Gay and Lesbian Art Museum in New York. I’m thrilled to be part of the On Our Backs exhibition and feeling chuffed that my work would be see as art. Read More …