The Female Gaze Erotic Film Competition

Today we’re launching the official For The Girls 7th birthday contest – The Female Gaze Erotic Film Competition. The idea is to encourage representation of female perspectives in erotic film. We’re looking for short film submissions, under 10 minutes, that are erotic and embody the female gaze – a woman’s perspective of sex and sexuality. It doesn’t have to be explicit, although that’s always nice. It does have to include Read More …

Why Yes, I Am A Capitalist

I need to say something. Something that’s pretty obvious really: I’m a capitalist. I make porn to make money. It’s how I earn my living. And it seems that some would argue that because I’m trying to make a profit from porn, this immediately means that anything I have to say on the topic of censorship or feminist porn is therefore tainted or hasn’t any weight. I got this aggravation Read More …

The Big Red Shiny Button

History Eraser Buttonemski* [AVS/MFL] | MySpace Video Fresh from saving us all from “spams and scams coming through the portal“, Minister for Communications Senator Conroy has come up with another brilliant idea to save the kiddies from all the horrors of the internet. A nice shiny red browser button. Based on the Adobe Air platform, the security device, notionally referred to as a “big red button” will either occupy the Read More …

Post: What Oprah Didn’t Tell You About Porn For Women

I’ve written a guest post for Good Vibrations magazine. It’s called What Oprah Didn’t Tell You About Porn For Women. I wanted to give a back-to-basics rundown of what I think are the main points about porn for women and what it encompasses. One of the things I wanted to point out is the ongoing blind spot the media has when it comes to websites. The Oprah show happily quoted Read More …

Birthdays And Blogaversaries

Can you believe it, it’s my 6th Blogaversary! Actually, I’m a day late, I forgot! Anyway, I wrote my first blog post in the old format blog on June 7th, 2004. I’m now on my 2nd script and third design. Added to that, it’s For The Girls’ 7th birthday in June. I can’t believe how quickly that time went. I have to admit, I really didn’t think our little site Read More …

Free Handcuffs

Erika Lust’s new film Life Love Lust is now available to stream via Hot Movies! This new movie consists of three erotic film jewels by the acclaimed director Erika Lust. LIFE: After finishing the day in the restaurant, a chef and a waitress have an incredible encounter to celebrate his birthday. LOVE: A forty-something executive seduces a young man she occasionally meets in a city hotel. LUST: Lola uses her Read More …

Australian Doco Seeks Female Porn Fans, Non Vanilla Types

Want to talk about porn or your kinky lifestyles? An Australian documentary is looking into unusual sexual relationships. Here’s the info: TV production looking for women to talk about their experience with Porn. A Sydney-based television company is producing a documentary about different types of relationships and sexual practices. We’ll be profiling a diverse range of sexual choices, including celibacy, swinging, porn, polyamory and hopefully many more. Largely interview-based, the Read More …

Our Porn, Ourselves

I want to say thanks to Violet Blue for working her butt off over the last couple of days, organising a new pro-porn group that she’s called Our Porn, Ourselves. Violet was spurred into action by news of an anti-porn conference to be held in Boston by the Stop Porn Coalition, an organisation that calls itself feminist but in fact has hidden fundamentalist Christian roots. This “conference” is long on Read More …

Australian Magistrate Declares Films “Objectionable” Without Watching Them

In June 2009 the officers of Australian sex positive adult company Abby Winters was raided by police. In January 2010 Garion Hall was charged with “producing an objectionable film” and also 2 counts of child porn. The case has finally gone to court and G Media, the company that runs Abby Winters, has been fined $6000 after Hall pleaded guilty to the objectionable film charge. The CP charges were dropped, Read More …

Pure Cunnilingus Has Been Revamped

[flashvideo file=video/PCtourvidonbeat.flv /] Way back in 2002 I sat down and made Pure Cunnilingus, a site devoted to male-female cunnilingus. I did this because there were no other porn sites on the web that featured men going down and it bugged me. I like seeing guys lick clit. It’s hot. Mainstream porn steadfastly avoids the topic of male muff diving. If you search on the standard slang terms like “rug Read More …

Average-Size Guys Are Fine, Thanks

SMH says: A report in the Australian journal Body Image has found that consumers respond positively to depictions of average-sized men in advertising. The survey asked over 600 students in their late teens to look at mock-up advertisements for products, some using muscle-bound men and others using thinner or chubbier male models. The results showed that the “buffed” models didn’t rate any higher than average guys. Neither sex responded more Read More …

Books About Cunnilingus

I’m revamping one of my favourite sites Pure Cunnilingus* and it’s partly why my blog has been so quiet this week. I’ve done a bit of research into books on cunnilingus so thought I’d repost the info here. She Comes First: The Thinking Man’s Guide To Pleasuring A Woman by Ian Kerner Dispelling the widely held myth of genital penetration as the apogee of sexual pleasure, Kerner, who holds a Read More …

Why Feminism Must Shun Religion

Just a quick post to draw your attention to Why feminism must embrace reason and shun religion, an excellent article that questions the feminist movement’s apparent “blind spot” when it comes to religion, especially given the appalling sexism that exists in almost all religions, especially the monotheistic ones. It seems to me that some feminists are afraid of a critical discussion about religious faith, because of the ever-looming label of Read More …

This Is How Some Cultures View Women

This is an ad from Egypt encouraging women to cover themselves to prevent rape (via this post at Pharyngula?. That’s right girls, if you’re raped, it’s your own fault for being uncovered and letting the flies stick to you. Never mind the education campaign telling men that rape is bad. Responsibility and honour lies with women. I’ve stated before that I think religion is responsible for oppressing women and Islam Read More …