Radical Feminists Vs Porn For Women

Searching Google for “porn for women” I found this this blog post by a radical feminist, announcing why women’s erotica is against the sisterhood. This blogger toes the old line about how porn only exists so men can degrade women, and wrongly declares that the word “pornography” means “depictions of women as vile whores” in Greek (the real translation is “writing of/about harlots”). She then says that, since porn’s only Read More …

Blam! Blam! – New Porn Mag For Women

Two young women from Milwaukee* have launched a new “sensuality magazine” aimed at women. Jenna Leskela and editor Michelle Scifers are the women behind Blam!Blam!, a quarterly journal featuring erotic fiction, photography, articles and sex advice. According to their website, they came up with the idea after attending a sex toy party. The unusual name is inspired by a line from David Bowie’s Suffragette City. The article in OnMilwaukee says Read More …

Catching Up With The Pro-Sex Feminists

This month’s feature article at For The Girls is a tribute to the pioneers of Pro Sex Feminism: Annie Sprinkle, Betty Dodson, Susie Bright, Joani Blank, Candida Royalle et al. It was hard to sum up the achievements of these women in one handy-dandy paragraph each, but I gave it a red hot go. In researching each of these heroines I visited their websites to see what they’d been up Read More …

“Our Deepest Fear”

Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate, our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous? Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small doesn’t serve the world. There’s nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other Read More …

A Winter Funeral

Stop all the clocks, cut off the telephone, Prevent the dog from barking with a juicy bone, Silence the pianos and with muffled drum Bring out the coffin, let the mourners come. – WH Auden It’s cold here. A family friend has left us. She liked chardonnay and had a big, strong laugh. She also smoked heavily all her life, and that’s what got her in the end. Normal blogging Read More …

Sugasm #36

The Sugasm thing went a bit pear shaped for a few weeks, but it seems that they’ve got their act together again. So here’s the latest one. Enjoy. This week’s best of the sex blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Want in Sugasm #37? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form. Participants, repost the linklist by the end of next Monday night and Read More …

Ms Naughty Turns Agony Aunt About Porn and Penises

I got an email from a reader asking advice. Since he told me I could post my response in his blog, I thought I’d answer and whack the whole lot up here for your voyeuristic gratification. Please note: I’m not a sex therapist, so don’t even think about pretending this is professional advice. And names have been withheld to protect the guilty. Dear Ms Naughty, I’ve been reading your blog Read More …

Feminist Porn Awards Follow Up + Board Comments

The National Post has a nice feature article discussing the recently held feminist porn awards. A few quotes: “‘It’s not that sex is degrading – sex is awesome. It was the images that were degrading,’ explained Abiola Abrams, an African-American porn producer based in New York.” “While feminist porn is made for women, the directors hope there will be a sort of sexual trickle-down effect, that men will see what Read More …

Hunk of the Week: Shane

I’ve been fairly busy over the last few days, haven’t had a chance to blog in my usual verbose way. So today’s post is just a quick pic of the Hunk of the Week from today’s update at For The Girls. Shane here has an impressive six-pack and a bit of a square jaw, but he still looks about 19. Cute, I think.

Hand Me A Tissue, Please

Now here’s a photo you don’t see often in porn: cleaning up the semen with a humble tissue. You know, like people do. This photo is from our featured couple pictorial for April at For The Girls. The lovely man and woman in the pics do a lot of kissing in the great outdoors before stripping off and fucking on a handy DIY sex swing. It’s a great set because Read More …

Feminist Porn Awards – The Winners

Good For Her has published the winners of their first ever Feminist Porn Awards: Hottest Anal Adventure Winner: House of Ass | Tristan Taormino; Adam & Eve Presented by Josey Vogels and Carrie Singh Best Smutty Schoolteacher (Educational) Winner: Orgasmic Women | Betty Dodson Presented by Rebecca Rosenblatt (aka Dr. Date) & Valerie Scott (Sex Professionals of Canada) Sexiest, Most Diverse Performers Winner: Caribbean Heat | Manuela Sabrosa; Femme Productions Read More …

A Spot Of Kama Sutra On A Friday

I successfully upgraded the blog without any hassles. Imagine that. No glitches or errors that it takes half a day to fix! So to celebrate I’m going to include this rather improbable photo from a wonderful photo set we have at For The Girls. I don’t think the position has a name, but it looks like it should be called “The Orgasmic Necktie” or “Understanding Calculus” or “Coalition of the Read More …

For The Girls Launches Erotic Fiction Competition

And now… an announcement. For The Girls has launched a new erotic fiction competition to celebrate their 3rd birthday. Writers are invited to submit quality erotic stories that have been written specifically for a female audience. Each story must contain at least one instance of cunnilingus. The winner will receive $200 and a month’s membership to For The Girls, and their story will be published on the website. The runner Read More …

A Little 3rd Birthday Musing

So, today is June 1. Three years ago For The Girls was launched. Time flies, doesn’t it? For The Girls was a fairly modest site when it started out, but we had big plans for it. My partner and I firmly believed in what we were doing. Women like us wanted porn – but those women wanted a different kind of porn, presented in a more inclusive way. Oh, and Read More …