Ms Naughty Porn for Women site has been in the search engine wilderness for a couple of years but it seems I’ve made a bit of a comeback. And with a surge of audience, I figured I’d better get off my butt and give you an updated post about porn for women in 2019, heading into 2020.
Despite the fact that the phrase “porn for women” is seen as outdated by some, there’s still plenty of people looking for it. And quite a few sites that fit the criteria. Ideally, my idea of women’s porn is explicit content that features female pleasure, female agency, offers a female gaze or – at the very least – doesn’t automatically assume the audience is male.
So here’s my list of good porn for women sites for the coming decade.
Well of course I was going to promote my own site first up! Bright Desire turns 7 on 1st December 2019 and it features the 70+ scenes I’ve filmed along with my short films, movies by guest directors, non-exclusive porn videos and photos, erotic fiction, articles, reviews and more. My long history of curating and making porn for women found its ultimate expression in Bright Desire. This is porn how I think it should be made: celebrating intimacy, laughter, female pleasure and agency, created ethically. I’ve shot lots of real-life couples and embraced expanded definitions of sexiness over the years. My site has straight and queer content, hot men, solo women and a bunch of award-winning films. You can watch my feature film The Fantasy Project at Bright Desire. This is on top of a huge archive of curated content collected over the years.
BD won Honored Website at the Feminist Porn Awards in 2015. My films have screened at over 90 film festivals and I’ve won 13 awards. I was awarded the Indie Porn Icon award at the Toronto International Porn Festival in 2017.
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Lustery is run by Paulita Pappel, one of the organisers of the Berlin Porn Film Festival and a friend. Lustery is a European site featuring real-life couples getting it on, often filming themselves. Lustery features a lot of couples making porn for the first time and it’s got a nice amateur vibe to it. The site has a commitment to ethical production and authenticity which is great. You can also submit your own videos if you’re up for it.
FrolicMe, created in 2015, is a very female- and straight couple-focused site. It offers a selection of female-friendly films, erotic fiction, audio erotica and other content. The site offers high end, “glamour” style straight porn with nice lighting and locations, and good looking performers. If you’re up for some professional porn without the misogyny, you’ll love FrolicMe
Sssh has been a paysite since 2002, making it one of the older sites for women on the internet. This means it has a huge curated collection of content in its archives. On top of that, the site makes original films based on member’s fantasies and has recently delved into the world of virtual reality porn. Creator Angie Rowntree has long been a passionate advocate for women’s erotica and Sssh embodies her ideal of good porn for couples and women.
Pink Label TV is the perfect place to explore ethically produced alternative and queer porn. Run by my longtime friend Shine Louise Houston, Pink Label features a huge variety of quality porn films from different filmmakers all around the world. Inspired to create Pink Label after visiting the Berlin Porn Film Festival, Shine has built up an amazing video-on-demand site that allows users to sample an array of sexualities, genders, kinks and ideas. Many films have won Feminist Porn Awards and Shine herself has been recognised multiple times. You can also join the membership section for more access to great films. Shine also runs the Crash Pad Series site, the most successful queer/lesbian porn site on the web.
You’ve probably already heard about XConfessions by Spanish director Erika Lust. She’s now in charge of one of the largest porn empires in the world and her focus is female-friendly porn. The site started out by filming erotic fantasies submitted by members. It now features films by a large number of European guest directors, exploring a wide range of fantasy and kink. Erika has also recently made her first 3D VR film. You might want to also check out Lust Cinema, which has a large selection of feature films by female and alternative directors.
Petra Joy started making her own brand of porn for women in 2003. Her feature films include lush group sex, romantic couples scenes and queer kink. Cinema Joy features all of her work plus the films of many other female and feminist porn directors including Maria Beatty and Tristan Taormino. It also has several award-winning short films by European female directors. I’ve always loved Petra’s films so this site is worth a look.
Free Porn?
Ah, so you’re after something free? Can’t afford to pay right now? OK, sure. Here’s a couple of free sites that can get you started. Although please remember, the best way to support ethical, alternative porn for women is to pay the people who are making it.
Porn For Women TV
I made this site a few years ago and recently revamped it. You’ll find a selection of quality free porn for women videos there.
FeministPorn.Org
This site has a heap of information on feminist porn including free videos. You can find out the best feminist porn directors, performers and sites as well.
Female Porn Directors
I made this site to showcase the work of female porn directors, especially those I know or admire. I also made up a huge list of directors who identify as female so you can do your own searches. And yes, there’s free porn videos there as well.
So there it is. Go forth and enjoy some good porn for women. And I’m seeing a whole new generation of female, queer and alternative directors emerging who are making some top quality porn – all of which I think women can enjoy, no matter your taste, orientation or politics. Please, support your local pornographers!