{"id":860,"date":"2008-07-10T22:16:57","date_gmt":"2008-07-10T12:16:57","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.msnaughty.com\/blog\/?p=860"},"modified":"2008-07-10T22:16:57","modified_gmt":"2008-07-10T12:16:57","slug":"the-girl-gives-good-advice","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/msnaughty.com\/blog\/2008\/07\/10\/the-girl-gives-good-advice\/","title":{"rendered":"The Girl Gives Good Advice"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"GirlThe Girl With A One Track Mind<\/a> always gives good blog, and her latest post<\/a> is no exception. In it she replies to the suggestion that she’s a fake because no “real” woman could have that many orgasms so easily. I liked this bit:<\/p>\n

Seriously (and ego aside) though, what\u2019s with all the focus on MEN bringing WOMEN to orgasm? Isn\u2019t there enough pressure on men already? What about women bringing themselves to orgasm? I\u2019ve stated, many times, on this blog that women need to take responsibility for their own pleasure. By learning about their bodies and discovering what works for them; by switching off those horrid insecurities that can impact the sex (\u201cDoes he think I\u2019m fat?\u201d; \u201cWill he consider me a slut for fucking him on the first date?\u201d; \u201cAm I shit at hand-jobs?\u201d); by gaining confidence in stating their needs, women will have a better time in bed \u2013 as will the men they\u2019re with \u2013 and the sex will be improved as a result.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

She’s spot on. Unfortunately there’s this long tradition in our society that a man “makes” the woman come. It’s all tied up in the whole Freudian thing where the official source of female orgasms is via a penis moving in and out of a vagina. The clit is still something that a woman has to “discover”. Sex education still emphasises intercourse and pretty much implies that penis-in-vagina equals orgasm for both partners automatically. I don’t doubt that the majority of women fully expect the fireworks thing to happen when they first have sex. And when that doesn’t occur… well, cue all the insecurity and worrying and stress.<\/p>\n

Self discovery combined with communication is the key to good sex for women. I’m so glad the Girl is out there waving the flag for us.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

The Girl With A One Track Mind always gives good blog, and her latest post is no exception. In it she replies to the suggestion that she’s a fake because no “real” woman could have that many orgasms so easily. I liked this bit: Seriously (and ego aside) though, what\u2019s with all the focus on MEN bringing WOMEN to orgasm? Isn\u2019t there enough pressure on men already? What about women Read More …<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":4,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[23],"tags":[368,588,919,856],"class_list":["post-860","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-sex-and-women","tag-girl-with-a-one-track-mind","tag-orgasm","tag-sexuality","tag-women"],"aioseo_notices":[],"aioseo_head":"\n\t\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t