{"id":3409,"date":"2013-01-08T07:49:37","date_gmt":"2013-01-08T07:49:37","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.msnaughty.com\/blog\/?p=3409"},"modified":"2013-01-08T07:49:37","modified_gmt":"2013-01-08T07:49:37","slug":"the-p-word-accepting-or-rejecting-the-porn-moniker","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/msnaughty.com\/blog\/2013\/01\/08\/the-p-word-accepting-or-rejecting-the-porn-moniker\/","title":{"rendered":"The &#8220;P&#8221; Word: Accepting Or Rejecting The Porn Moniker"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-full wp-image-3410\" title=\"pornvserotica\" src=\"https:\/\/msnaughty.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/pornvserotica.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"297\" height=\"180\" \/>One of the issues I considered when building my new site Bright Desire was whether I&#8217;d say it was porn or not. It may seem like a trivial thing, especially given that what I am offering is, you know, <em>porn<\/em> and all, but it&#8217;s actually a bit of a big deal, especially when it comes to feminist or alternative or new-wave porn. Deciding to use the &#8220;p&#8221; word or not becomes a branding exercise and it can make a big difference to how you are perceived, by your audience, the media and even the law.<\/p>\n<p>Everybody knows what porn is. It&#8217;s the movies and pictures you jerk off to or have sex to. It&#8217;s images of dirty, hardcore sex, blowjobs and facial cumshots and bukkake and anal sex and tits and ass. It&#8217;s the prurient interest; self-gratification, pure and simple. It&#8217;s rule 34. It&#8217;s what the internet is for.<\/p>\n<p>Porn is also bad acting, bad production values, bad disco music, bad boob jobs. Porn is parking-lot-around-the-back, badly lit, seedy, wrong-side-of-town and kind of smelly. Porn is stereotypes, sexism, racism, degradation, negativity, exploitation. Porn goes hand-in-hand (as it were) with shame, embarrassment, secrecy, lies, &#8220;addiction&#8221; and sin.<\/p>\n<p>The idea of porn as a low-quality monument to self indulgence has meant the word is now used to describe excess or bad taste in other areas: food porn, architecture porn, fashion porn.<!--more--><\/p>\n<p>Everybody knows what porn is and they also know, thanks to constant societal pressure, that it&#8217;s a Bad Thing. Never mind that most people enjoy it or that studies have yet to prove that using it causes harm, it&#8217;s still seen as a naughty, shameful, dangerous form of media.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Porn&#8221; comes with a spectacular trailerload of negative linguistic and cognitive baggage. Using it in your marketing can be something of a poisoned chalice, particularly when you are trying to make a distinction between regular porn &#8211; which is often all of the above &#8211; and your own positive, ethical, feminist production.<\/p>\n<p>Thus, feminist porn pioneer <a href=\"http:\/\/www.gamelink.com\/search\/super_search.jhtml?listingView=&amp;query=candida+royalle&amp;searchType=Products&amp;facet=studio%3ACandida+Royalle%27s+Femme&amp;src=pfw\">Candida Royalle<\/a> refuses to describe her 17 movie titles as porn. She calls them <em>erotica for women and couples<\/em> and deliberately used the &#8220;e&#8221; word from the very start in 1984. She knew that women were (and are) often turned off by mainstream porn and figured that stepping away from the term &#8220;porn&#8221; was the best way to differentiate her work.<\/p>\n<p>Similarly, Dutch director Jennifer Lyon Bell says her production company <a href=\"http:\/\/blueartichokefilms.com\/\">Blue Artichoke Films<\/a> is &#8220;erotic film for people who like film&#8221;. Erika Lust&#8217;s <a href=\"https:\/\/lustcinema.com\/?tap_a=33084-98de6a&amp;tap_s=255113-e0ef85\">Lust Cinema<\/a> uses the terms &#8220;erotic film&#8221; and &#8220;adult cinema&#8221; rather than &#8220;porn&#8221;. Documentary maker Tony Comstock also refused to use the word, labelling his explicit documentaries as &#8220;real people, real life, real sex.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>The very title of Cindy Gallop&#8217;s new site <a href=\"http:\/\/www.makelovenotporn.tv\">Make Love Not Porn<\/a> is based on the rejection of &#8220;porn&#8221; as a negative thing. It uses the term &#8220;real world sex&#8221; to describe the amateur contributions made by non-porn performers and offers an alternative vision of sex which doesn&#8217;t rely on the cinematic or behavioural cliches or regular porn content. This is all about &#8220;making love&#8221; not porn-style fucking and that point of difference is the lynchpin of that site&#8217;s sales strategy.<\/p>\n<p>Aside from avoiding the &#8220;p&#8221; word, many alternative producers also describe their work as artistic. And certainly, some feminist porn seeks to treat sexual content with a different aesthetic approach, moving away from the &#8220;traditional&#8221; methods of production and presentation. Most alternative producers consider their work to be a form of art; it&#8217;s a depiction of a personal vision for them, as well as a commercial enterprise.<\/p>\n<p>Using the term &#8220;artistic&#8221; is also a handy way to step away from the association with &#8220;porn&#8221; and all of its sordid assumptions, to create a sort of cultural dividing line that indicates the work is <em>better<\/em> than the standard stuff. It also creates debate about what is <em>art<\/em> and what is <em>porn<\/em>, a question that can never be objectively answered. It invites judgement and creates a false dichotomy wherein &#8220;porn&#8221; &#8211; all porn &#8211; is bad and must be shunned. We saw this in the <a href=\"http:\/\/www.theglobeandmail.com\/arts\/film\/judges-get-set-for-torontos-feminist-porn-awards\/article4170649\/\">Globe and Mail article about the 2012 Feminist Porn Awards<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Given the negativity behind the &#8220;p&#8221; word, I do sometimes wonder if I&#8217;m doing the wrong thing when I continue to refer to my work as porn. The films and websites I make are different to what most people imagine porn to be. And I don&#8217;t want to be lumped in with all the dodgy sexist crap and dismissed, nor do I want to be considered to be a dirty, degraded pornographer. I too consider my work to be artistic and political. I have something to say about sexuality and lust and relationships and I want to say it.<\/p>\n<p>At the same time, I make erotic material that is designed to arouse. It&#8217;s there to incite the prurient interest, to titillate and to prompt masturbation. In short, yes, I make <em>porn<\/em>. And I think that that is part of the reason why I&#8217;m happy to keep using the &#8220;p&#8221; word. I want to be honest about where I sit in the scheme of things. I&#8217;m not a Mapplethorpe or a Catherine Briellat or a Bertolucci. I&#8217;m not going to pretend that what I&#8217;m doing is high art. I want to turn people on, get them off, get them into bed together&#8230; and I don&#8217;t think there&#8217;s anything wrong with that. It helps if I can be positive and artistic at the same time but in the end, it&#8217;s all about arousing the viewer. That is the essence of porn. It&#8217;s what I was promoting when I first started out in this industry, making small smutty websites to advertise stuff. Yes, that stuff was for women, it was feminist, it was positive, but it was still porn.<\/p>\n<p>All the other things, the sexism, the dirty adult bookshops, the bad production values&#8230; they don&#8217;t <em>have<\/em> to be what porn is about. That is <em>bad porn<\/em>. I want to make good porn. I want to take back the word from its unfortunate past and create something new with it. Even if that means I have to add extra phrasing &#8211; feminist porn, porn for women, new wave porn, female-friendly porn. The &#8220;p&#8221; word is what people type into Google every day. As long as we&#8217;re stuck with it, I want to own it.<\/p>\n<p>And so Bright Desire features the word &#8220;porn&#8221; in its html title and I use it to describe my films and what I do. I also happily use the words erotica and art as well. I want to cover all bases, I guess.<\/p>\n<p>Of course, if the fundamentalists across the road discover what I do and ring the cops and they come knocking on my door, you can bet I&#8217;ll be telling them I make <em>erotica<\/em>, not porn. Because <em>erotica<\/em> sells 65 million copies and gets you named as Publisher of the Year and doesn&#8217;t seem to bother the Australian censors or police in the slightest. <em>Porn<\/em> might get you <a href=\"http:\/\/www.smh.com.au\/national\/video-nasty-one-mans-ordeal-and-societys-mixed-messages-on-porn-20120818-24f0x.html\">a 6 month prison sentence if you&#8217;re unlucky<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Words really do make a difference.<\/p>\n<!-- AddThis Advanced Settings generic via filter on the_content --><!-- AddThis Share Buttons generic via filter on the_content -->","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Deciding to use the word &#8220;porn&#8221; or not becomes a branding exercise and it can make a big difference to how you are perceived, by your audience, the media and even the law. 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