{"id":254,"date":"2007-01-10T17:39:46","date_gmt":"2007-01-10T07:39:46","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.msnaughty.com\/blog\/2007\/01\/10\/sex-blogging\/"},"modified":"2007-01-10T17:39:46","modified_gmt":"2007-01-10T07:39:46","slug":"sex-blogging","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/msnaughty.com\/blog\/2007\/01\/10\/sex-blogging\/","title":{"rendered":"Sex Blogging"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"SexOur feature article at For The Girls this month is about female sex bloggers. I had a really interesting time talking to numerous bloggers for the article – with extra thanks to Always Aroused Girl<\/a> and Audacia Ray<\/a>.<\/p>\n

I am not a sex blogger in the standard sense of the word. While my blog is about sex and porn, it’s not about me. I don’t often write about my private life, I don’t post pictures of myself, I don’t participate in Half Nekkid Thursday<\/a> (although, you know, perhaps I should. Now we’ve got a decent camera it’s starting to look appealing). <\/p>\n

I’ve actually made an effort not to put too much of myself into this blog. One reason is because I want it to be a newsy sort of blog, and another reason is that Ms Naughty is partly a promotional vehicle for my porn.<\/p>\n

But the other reason is that I’m just not so keen on sharing my sex life with the world. It’s not that thrilling, for a start, and it’s also something I don’t want to write about. I don’t want to invite my blog into the bedroom so that it’s always there, lurking, waiting for post fodder. Working with porn is bad enough – I can sometimes find myself distracted from the task at hand (as it were) because I’m thinking of a new erotic story, or an exciting new site, or a marketing article I read. When sex is your work, boundaries get blurred.<\/p>\n

Privacy is a big issue. As we’ve seen recently with the outing of The Girl With A One Track Mind<\/a>, and even Chelsea Girl’s<\/a> cyberstalker, sex blogging can be a dangerous, fraught business. I don’t have a “real” job to protect, but I’m not in any hurry to let people know more about me than they need to. There are some strange people out there.<\/p>\n

On top of that, I’m a bit of a wimp. I’m crap at ignoring abuse, and sex blogging has it’s share of trolls. I take things to heart, and I get mad. In the past I’ve been involved in a number of online disputes, and consequently lay awake half the night composing long, angry replies full of self-justification, all the while worrying that what they said was really true.<\/p>\n

So, given all this, I have to say how much I respect those people who do <\/em>blog about their sex lives. They take a lot of risks, both personal and emotional, to do what they do. And I think it’s worthwhile. They offer so many fresh, real perspectives on sex – and they make for some hot reading.<\/p>\n

So thank you, sex bloggers. Keep it up.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Our feature article at For The Girls this month is about female sex bloggers. I had a really interesting time talking to numerous bloggers for the article – with extra thanks to Always Aroused Girl and Audacia Ray. I am not a sex blogger in the standard sense of the word. While my blog is about sex and porn, it’s not about me. I don’t often write about my private Read More …<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":4,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-254","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-blogging"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/msnaughty.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/254","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/msnaughty.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/msnaughty.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/msnaughty.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/4"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/msnaughty.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=254"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/msnaughty.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/254\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/msnaughty.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=254"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/msnaughty.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=254"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/msnaughty.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=254"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}