Bright Desire Is One Year Old

On the 1st of December, Bright Desire, my new smart porn site that features all of my films, turned one year old. Hooray! A birthday! This post is late. Almost three weeks late, actually. I should have posted about it on the day and also had celebratory press releases sent out. Unfortunately I was just too overwhelmed with running the damn thing to do anything special. I’ve been more than Read More …

My Sexy, Powerful Childhood Heroines

Now that I’m hideously old and decrepit I’m allowed to indulge in nostalgia because, well, because I say so. But since I also write a feminist blog about sex and porn I thought I might as well bring a bit of analysis into my reminiscing. Because why the hell not? So the other day I found myself musing about the women I looked up to in the TV shows, movies Read More …

The Single-Column Internet Is Making Me Tetchy

OK, here’s another post to file under “curmudgeonly old person rant”. Now I’m 40 I’m entitled to be a grumpy old woman. It looks like I’ll need to update the theme for my blog since it seems to be creating errors willy-nilly. I’ve been cruising the various theme sites trying to find a replacement and one of the more important aspects of any new theme in 2013 is that it’s Read More …

Life Begins At Forty

It’s been a big weekend. Despite my best efforts to stay 27, I had no choice but to turn 40. It’s a bit of a milestone and means I might officially be “middle aged”, though there’s no way I feel old. The saying is that inside every older person is a young one wondering what the hell happened. Certainly I’m feeling amazed at how quickly time has passed, especially the Read More …

Clitblocked By Google

This is not going to be a very coherent post, I suspect. More of an angry “I need to vent” kind of rant. Hot on the heels of being censored by Vimeo came the news that Blogger (owned by Google) was giving users 4 days to remove any adult advertising from their sites. The email sent out to those who had voluntarily labelled their blogs NSFW didn’t bother to define Read More …